October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. It’s very
much on my mind lately because a dear family member is battling this pernicious
disease. Even though there are measures we can take to lessen our risk of
breast cancer, sometimes it strikes anyway—even when there is no family history
of any form of cancer, going back generations. There’s much we know about
breast cancer but still so much we don’t.
Being physically “there” to support a friend or
family member going through the rigors of treatment is not always an option. In
my case, my relative is on the other side of the country. But there are many
other ways to show support, depending on the person’s needs. In the case of my
relative, I know that she has an incredible support group of friends who have
taken over meal prep and transportation duties and started a GoFundMe page to
raise money to cover medical expenses that insurance won’t cover.
My relative has decided she doesn’t want out-of-town
visitors until she’s nearly finished with her chemotherapy. I understand this.
No matter how much I want to be there to help her, I also know that having
extra people around all day can be stressful. Even phone calls can be difficult
because you never know if the patient really wants to talk or is merely being
polite because that’s the kind of person she is.
So one of the things I’ve decided to do is send her a
gift for each round of her chemo, just a little something to let her know she’s
in my heart and my thoughts. Sometimes it’s the smallest gesture that can put a
smile on your face and help you get through a rough day.
If you have a loved one battling breast cancer or any
form of cancer, for that matter, let them know how much you care by doing
something that will brighten their day.
You are very thoughtful and kind. When I was diagnosed with breast cancer and I underwent chemo, and radiation it was unexpected since I do not have the gene. I was strong and overcame this insidious disease which strikes too many women. No one was there for me and it was depressing and demoralizing. I have overcome this problem but then suffered with several surgeries not related but I have RA now.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry you had such a rough time, Traveler, and I hope the RA is under control. We'll keep you in our thoughts.
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