Janis Susan May/Janis Patterson is a 7th-generation Texan and a
3rd-generation wordsmith who writes in mystery, romance, and horror. Learn more
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Christmas Memories
Christmas! Just the mention of the
word evokes images of snow and family togetherness and a decorated tree and
presents... Some people don't like Christmas for reasons of their own, but I
love Christmas because of all the happy memories involved.
When I was a child the entire
family - aunts, uncles, cousins of several generations - would gather for
Christmas day at my grandparents' house in a small town in North Texas. The
house was built in the 1880s and was very cold, but we didn't care. Each family
had had their 'tree' as we called presents and Santa in their own home, either
on Christmas Eve or early Christmas morning, then all would trek up to the
family home. My grandmother didn't decorate beyond a tree - usually a small one
set on a table in the corner of the seldom-used parlor. One year it was made of
blue net, which was very strange.
We had presents, but not very many
and not very grand. Usually the children under 10 or so got presents from
everyone, but the rest drew names. We weren't a wealthy family, at least not in
money. What I remember most fondly, though, is not the presents - I cherish the
memories of love and fun and togetherness... and the food. Especially the food.
Every family brought a dish and
the old round table from the 1840s in the kitchen (which is now my breakfast
table) couldn't hold it all, so the dishes spread out over the counters and
stove. My mother made superb pies and always took six or eight - and none of
them ever came home. Our cuisine was ample, but basically simple. Ambrosia
salad. Green bean casserole. Several kinds of stuffing. Corn, either plain or
in casserole, sometimes both. Turkey. Ham. Occasionally a roast. Sweet potatoes
- yes, with pineapple and marshmallows. Green peas and pearl onions. Irish potatoes
cooked in several ways. Sometimes fried okra, freshly cooked just before we
started to eat. And of course, iced tea to drink. There was no alcohol of any
kind at any gathering at my grandparents' house.
We had the tree first, all of us
oohing and aahing over everyone's gifts no matter what they were, and then we
migrated to the kitchen. Dinner usually lasted most of the day. After the first
heaping plateful we would all sit around, talking primarily - ours was a
'talking' family - while our dinner 'settled,' then we would mosey back to the
kitchen for a little snack. Sometimes several times.
So many children today miss the
wonderful experience of an extended family. We did not. My grandparents'
siblings came to dinner, and sometimes some of their children if they were in
town. Some members brought friends who would have no place else to go.
Boyfriends and girlfriends were welcome. My grandmother's sister had died in
the Spanish influenza epidemic right after World War I, but her widower - and
his second wife! - came to our Christmas regularly, and were very welcome. I
was nearly grown before I figured out that neither of them was a blood
relation!
There were games, too. We children
spent hours playing cards or Chinese checkers on an ancient board that had been
my grandfather's as a boy. Sometimes the men played gin rummy. The women
talked. If the weather was nice, we children would run off our energy playing
games outside, either in the yard or in the old barn on the back of the
property.
When it finally got into late
afternoon, the women would go into the kitchen; some would clean up while
others divided the leftovers (usually enough for two meals for a family - I
said there was a lot!) so each group would have some to take home. No leftovers
since have ever tasted so good.
Lois asked for a photograph
germane to my post, but there isn't one. Few of us had cameras, and if there
were pictures made, I don't know of any that have survived. It's a pity, but
the images in my heart can never fade. So - I must ask you to use your
imagination to picture the scene; a Norman Rockwell-type image would do nicely,
because it was just that lovely.
My grandparents' generation is
gone now, as is my parents'. I am now the oldest on both sides of my family - a
fact that never ceases to astonish me. The old house was sold long ago, and the
younger generations have scattered across the world. Which is the way of
things, and is perhaps good, because there is no way we could ever recapture
that feeling of wonder, of family, of hope, of love.
By the way, my Christmas release
this year is a tasty little novella of murder and mayhem called Killing Harvey, where on Christmas
morning the most unpleasant family member was discovered stabbed. And
garrotted. And possibly poisoned. It's sort of a funny story. However - please
rest assured that my family was nothing like that one!
Merry Christmas!
Killing Harvey
It was a killer Christmas…
By all accounts it should have
been a perfect holiday. A beautiful, elegant house. Rebecca’s future relatives
all together, talking happily about her upcoming Christmas afternoon wedding to
Peter. A gorgeous tree surrounded by presents. A Christmas-card perfect
snowfall.
But the snowfall turned into a
freak blizzard, trapping Rebecca and Peter in with his family. Then, once the
house was completely isolated and no one could enter or leave, the most
obnoxious member of the family is found stabbed. And garroted. And perhaps
poisoned. Who really killed Harvey… and how?
Can Rebecca solve this murder?
More importantly, does she really want to?
This sounds like a fine holiday mystery! Wishing you much success with it.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jacqueline! Wishing you and yours the Merriest of Christmases!
ReplyDeleteLove Christmas Memories posts, Susan!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.
Wishing you and yours the Merriest Christmas ever and a Blessed & Prosperous New Year!
PamT
Thank you, Pamela - and the same wishes for a Merry Christmas and the happiest of New Years back to you!
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