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comedies, medical romances and Regency romances—102 titles as of 2017. A former
Associated Press reporter, Jackie received a Romantic Times Career Achievement
Award. She currently writes the Safe Harbor Medical Mysteries and is reissuing
her classic romantic comedies. Learn
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Choosing a Surrogate Mom: Friend or No?
When
29-year-old Cress learned she couldn’t conceive or carry a baby, she was
thrilled by her best friend Tanya’s offer to serve as the surrogate. Her
husband, Wes, was delighted by the chance to save money.
Although many
parents choose commercial surrogates, and most such women are at least partly
motivated by an altruistic desire to help complete a family, the cost can rise
into the tens of thousands of dollars. And that’s in addition to medical
expenses.
Cress’s
obstetrician, Dr. Eric Darcy of Safe Harbor Medical Center, agreed to the
arrangement as long as all parties signed a legal agreement protecting their
rights. In California, where they all lived, surrogacy is well established
medically and legally.
Cress and
Tanya believed the experience would bring them closer. Instead, it had the
opposite effect after someone murdered Cress’s husband. As the circle of
suspects widened and evidence indicated Wes had been cheating on his
wife—possibly with the surrogate—the pair began fighting about the future
custody of the unborn baby, which had been conceived with Tanya’s own egg.
These women’s
situation is fictional, but the issues are real. Often there’s a happy outcome
when a friend or relative carries a baby, but complicated issues can arise.
While these rarely involve murder or infidelity, unanticipated emotions and
tensions can change a relationship.
The surrogacy
process requires a long commitment by the birth mother, and is physically
invasive. A volunteer, who has not undergone the rigorous screening of a
commercial surrogate, may underestimate the impact on her.
Regardless of
whether the surrogate is a friend or a stranger, medical professionals advise
against using the surrogate’s own eggs. If the intended mother can’t provide
viable eggs, these can be obtained from a separate donor—at a cost, of course.
But this reduces the risk of the surrogate feeling as if she’s giving up her
own child.
Also, everyone
involved needs to consider how they’ll interact after the baby is born. What
role will the friend/surrogate play? Are there expectations of greater
closeness with the new baby’s family or will there be a power struggle?
In The Case
of the Surly Surrogate, Cress and Tanya must sort out their issues under
the glare of the media and mounting concern that whoever killed Wes may target
one or both of them. Their obstetrician, Eric Darcy, proves a major source of
support as he stands by them and risks his life to help catch the murderer—just
as the baby makes her entrance into the world.
The Case of the Surly Surrogate
After Dr. Eric
Darcy discovers the body of a patient’s husband, he lands in the midst of a
murder investigation. Was the photographer killed because he was cheating on
his wife, or was he using his photos in a blackmail plot? And how did he
antagonize the surrogate mother about to give birth to his baby? The puzzle
pieces snap together in a fast-paced climax that could cost Eric his life.
4 comments:
I'm delighted to be blogging today and happy to answer any questions. Thanks!
Intriguing subject. I personally could never be a surrogate but I admire those who can. Looking forward to reading The Case of the Surly Surrogate!
Hi, Lisanne!
When I was pregnant with my younger son, I met a surrogate in the doctor's waiting room. We had a very interesting discussion! Later, the daughter-in-law of a friend signed up in a program to become a surrogate, but wasn't selected by anyone. She has a couple of beautiful daughters of her own, though.
Thanks for reading!
I love the concept for the conflict and, okay, the murder, even though that doesn't sound quite right in this context. What an interesting post. Thanks.
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