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Showing posts with label African-American romance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label African-American romance. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 31, 2020

MEET MINISTER AND CHRISTIAN ROMANCE AUTHOR CYNTHIA MIDDLEBROOKS HARRIS

Cynthia Middlebrooks Harris is both an ordained minister and an author African-American Christian romance. Today she joins us to discuss the challenges she faces combining these two parts of her life. Learn more about Cynthia and her books at her website and blog 

Doing What Feels Right
Christian authors are sometimes challenged with our choice of genre or content. Isn’t it amazing how others have the uncanny ability to pinpoint your strengths as a writer, and often strongly suggest the type of material they’re prophetically sure you should produce? We find ourselves, at times, yielding to the demand of others.

When I felt the urging from God to write fiction, moreover, Christian Romance Fiction, I instantly resisted. It wasn’t because I disagreed with the command from the Almighty. I cringed at the thought of the backlash I was destined to receive from my fellow ministers, and receive it, I did! “Why are you wasting your God-given talent on fiction? … With all your knowledge of the Bible, you chose fiction. And romance at that! … And just how do you suppose writing fiction will advance the kingdom of God? … You’ve grossly missed what God would have you to do… I can’t believe you are going to write that garbage… You’ll lose credibility as a minister of the gospel.”

Yet, I knew my imagination was a gift from God, early in my childhood. I spent the majority of my pre-teen years living inside of an imaginary world. No matter where I was or what I found myself doing, words were forever in my head. Soon, after many trials, tribulations, failures, and successes, Christianity and my imagination collided, and I emerged as a Christian Romance author. Christian or not, most everyone loves a good romance or drama novel.

Have you ever sat in church on Sunday morning, only to leave disappointed because you had no idea how to apply to your life what you just heard? Most often, the message is delivered as a prime cut of filet mignon, when instead, all you were capable of digesting at the time, was a hamburger. Inside, you scream, “Will someone please give me a simple answer to this Christian walk of life!”

I trusted God and followed his omniscient lead. Moreover, it just plain felt right! Through fiction writing, I dared to believe that marriages would be mended. I had a hope that young girls straddling the fence would choose to remain virtuous until their wedding nights. I prayed they would get the understanding that the jewels of the treasure box they have on lockdown should be opened only by the one who possesses the master key. 

It was also my desire that men would be challenged to rise to the occasion of the divine mandate of “mighty men of valor.” They will begin to become the heads of their homes and lead their wives and children after the manner laid out by God’s original design. They will begin to minister to their wives instead of choosing to throw caution and vows to the wind, going outside of the marriage bed at the first sign that the grass in their lawn has been overgrown with a few brown spots. They will begin to understand how devastated and lost their wives felt when they chose another over them.

I chose to dance to the beat of the drum that resonated deep within my spirit. The rhythm of my heart is exposed in this series. I could have chosen to fall in line with the instruction to use my “gift” to write nonfiction. If so, I would have missed a vast majority of the people who would never have chosen to pick up or open a bible. Some Christian authors fail in the task of writing a book that non-Christians will ever desire to read. I could have chosen, and written along the lines of the vast “Christian way of living” novels currently in print. The ones that often list seven ways to spirit living, five principles of the spirit-led man or battling the demons within. (These are not real titles. At least not to my knowledge. They are merely titles suggested as subjects for imagery, to drive home the point). And, the point is; if they have the word “Christian,” or “spirit living.” Some people will never open the cover even to view the first page. The reason, of course, they feel defeated, out-cast and substandard, in the title alone.

The Other Side of Through 
All Things Work Together, Book 1

Tragedy has struck Talinda Travis’ perfect world. A harsh reality has overshadowed the one thing she waited not so patiently on for a lifetime. The man of prophecy, handpicked by God just for her, lay dying in her arms at the hands of a mad man. How could this possibly be the right division of God’s word that says, ‘All things work together for the good?’  Talinda would come to understand her husband’s favorite quote that “Ministry is Always Required.” She finds herself in a place she thought she would never be at such a young age… a grieving widow. The woman she’d kept at arm’s length for most of her life would prove to be her most valuable asset as she fights to stay afloat emotionally.

Meanwhile, Nevette Naythia Goodfellow appears to be living the dream life with her newlywed husband, Derrick Justice Goodfellow II. She’s in total bliss and awe of God as she indulges in His most powerful gift on earth... love!  While Nevette is living inside her fairy tale, her closest friend Lindsay has perfected the art of masking a devastating secret. One that, if it were exposed, would threaten the spiritual stability of the small town where she spent most of her childhood. 

Every God-given emotion you have within will surface as you journey into Talinda and Nevette’s world in this riveting series. You will sigh with dreamy eyes…laugh out loud…cry and want to explode with revenge as you travel to The Other Side of Through with Talinda and Nevette!

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Tuesday, April 4, 2017

HEALTHY LIVING WITH GUEST AUTHOR TRACEE LYDIA GARNER

Tracee Lydia Garner is a bestselling, award-winning author who writes stories full of complex heroes and heroines, relationships and families that experience tough but realistic life challenges in their quest for love. Tracee works in health and human service by day, has a degree in communication and is a speaker and advocate for people with disabilities. Learn more about Tracee and her books at her website. 

Recently, trying to think of some good but interesting information to share with you for the post, it got me to thinking about the 3/22 post I read outlining the health benefits of journaling by Helen Bennett. I reflected on ways I try to ensure my own mental health and what routines and regimens I do to stay healthy.

As a wheelchair user with limited range of motion and mobility, a brisk run around the block is out of the question, so I went back to a talk I just gave recently to my local Toastmasters group. I work full time outside the home, and I spend my nights writing and publishing my novels. Weekends find me promoting my books at author conferences and book fairs. Mental and physical health is just something we all do with little thought, but here’s a rundown of exactly what I’m doing to ensure I stay aware to stay well.

1. Self-Association
2. Self-Talk
3. Self -Listening
4. Self Watch

What does all that mean? First, in order to have control of our influence(s), you first have to monitor who we associate with. Take out your phone and scroll through your list of contacts. Who in that list do you dread speaking to? Who do you get excited about? Call them instead. For all of us, there is someone on that list that is draining, maybe even a little selfish, and when you see their name on your screen or pick up the phone and hear their voice, you’re like, “oh no!”

Why is this? How can you make it better? How does that person make you feel?

Next is Self-Talk (or Speak) and it’s pretty self explanatory - what you say is what you are. If you really believed that, you may start trying to trap negativity before it gets out of your mouth. Speak positively and negativity will run away.

Lastly, Self-Watch and Self-Listen are really important. We live in a world where we are bombarded by images. I don’t watch much television, and this year I’ve decided I’ll be turning off the telly more than ever. I feel so much better without a constant barrage of data yelled to me. How annoying. Know what else? I get so much more done with my writing if I’m able to focus and not constantly turning my head to look at what’s on the television. DVR your programs so you can cut down on television and the commercials.

Turn off your TV Week, now called Screen Free Week is May 1 - 7. Look at some of the sites that talk about the origination of this observance as they often offer alternatives, fun meet-ups where you get together, get to know your neighbors and work on different causes and projects that really need our attention. Within that week, try to pay more attention to how you feel. What did you do? What didn't you do? 

Here’s another thing about so much television: you may find you want to consume less material and merchandise because the power of suggestion (through commercials) isn’t there to tell you what you’re “missing”. I’m not at all saying TV is bad; I like TV. I’m saying we likely don’t realize the effects it can have on us even when we don’t think it does or we believe that it’s just background noise and we’re not really paying attention.

With Self-Listening, do you ever listen to positive affirmations or uplifting stories in the morning? Or do you hear first about congestion for your (already dreaded) morning commute and who died? Try to begin the day by saying five great (and truthful) things about your life, your family, your work and/or yourself. See how you feel. See if that has some small impact to help you start out better. There’s plenty of folly to be had in the day. Why invite it first thing in the morning?

This all seems so simple, but when you’re busy and cruising through life, it’s so easy to get caught up and forget to observe the little things.

This is all part of my mental and physical health regimen. I hope there are some things you can take to add to your own.

Deadly Affections
How far would you go to uncover the truth?

Psychologist Leedra Henderson has a hidden motive in abandoning everything to accept a new job at the Anchored Empowerment Center. She secretly hopes that the new position will help her to investigate her own past – and to finally uncover the real story behind a string of mysterious deaths at her childhood foster home. 

Now a strong, independent woman, Leedra doesn't need help: she wants to seek justice, and she will. Alone.

Can you really limit your involvement when love is on the ticket?

Dexter Parker needs his own answers about that time in the foster home so long ago. A grown man reeling from the fallout of a broken marriage, Dexter’s rational mind tells him never to try the risks of love again – but he knows he could fill in the blanks for Leedra, if only it doesn’t end up costing him his heart. 

More urgently, Dexter needs to save the determined Leedra from the results of her detective work, before it all blows up in her face and costs both of them their lives.

Can the pair set aside their painful histories, avenge the lives that have been lost and – who knows – discover new love?

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