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Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

Sunday, January 7, 2018

#CRAFTS WITH ANASTASIA--WHAT'S YOUR TYPE (FONT)?

When I was in art school, I took typography courses. Merriam-Webster defines typography as “the style, arrangement, or appearance of typeset matter.” Typography is an art form that uses letters rather than images to convey a message. In class we learned how to choose the perfect font to best partner with our designs to enhance them. Marie Miguel, our guest today, talks about the psychology behind font choices in today’s digital world.

What Your Choice of Font Says About Your Personality (and How This Influences How Others Perceive You)

Aside from a few people with fairly specialized interests, the art of calligraphy is more often admired than practiced these days. Graphology – the study of handwriting – is still used forensically to determine things like whether or not a particular person wrote something or other by hand and what their state of mind might have been, but the idea that a person's psyche can be analyzed through how they shape their P's and Q's has pretty much been debunked with anyone who knows anything about psychology.

In modern times, though, what used to be called penmanship has been replaced by the ability to write in paragraphs, ‘nt abrvt wrds’ unnecessarily, and generally FORMAT AN EMAIL as if your age is in the double-figure range. Part of this means the font you choose, which may seem trivial while you're actually composing a message but can indeed influence the amount of interest and credence you can expect from editors, customer service reps, potential employers and even your mom.

Times New Roman
If you would like nothing less than to stand out from the crowd, use TNR. It's traditional, but also not the easiest to read nor the most stylish – regardless of whether “style” means either something more minimalistic or ornate to you. Using this font basically says to the world that you either don't know how to change the word processor's default, or you just don't care enough to do so, or you're over sixty.

Comic Sans
Used exclusively for children's birthday party invitations. Ignored in all other contexts. Can you imagine an unsolicited manuscript in this font ever being read? There's a first time for everything, but we're not holding our breath.

Arial
Reading a message written in this font gives the idea that the writer probably loves Notepad++, writes in block letters rather than cursive and compiles lists alphabetically. With Arial, the message is the meaning, with no added flair or color.

Cambria
Not as bare-bones simple as Arial yet not as pointlessly ornate as some serif fonts, Cambria has character while still remaining readable and classy. It may be nothing special, but it's rarely the wrong choice, which is probably why it's the default font in Microsoft Word.

Helvetica
In many ways, this font is a suitable go-to option unless you want to express some special kind of emotion. It's clean, cool and easy to read without looking quite as sparse as something like Courier or Arial. While the “best” font will always be a matter of opinion, using Helvetica suggests that you are serious without being stodgy.

Rockwell
Occasionally, a writer really wants to make a point. One of the ways of doing so is to use a lesser known font, forcing the reader to slow down a little and reset their mental preconceptions. While Rockwell isn't all that suited for everyday use, a message in this font takes a little longer to read and will stand out from those written in more easily recognized styles.

Tuesday, May 9, 2017

GUEST AUTHOR SANDRA DE HELEN TALKS TALK THERAPY

Sandra de Helen is a multifaceted author. Along with writing thrillers and a female-centric detective series that pays homage to Sherlock Holmes, she’s a published playwright and a poet. Her plays have been produced throughout the United States, including in New York and Chicago, as well as in the Philippines, Ireland and Canada. Learn more about Sandra and her books at her website. 

My thriller Till Darkness Comes features a young woman who goes to talk therapy for the first time and has a lesbian therapist. Both these things are central to the plot, and how they communicate in their sessions demonstrates their character traits through their interactions. I realize not everyone has had sessions with a psychologist, but I think they can see what is happening, even without that background.

As for me, I've had years of therapy, on an individual basis, in couples counseling, even family and group sessions. I've had both good and bad therapists, those who followed all the ethical guidelines, and those who didn't. Everyone in the profession is human, which is important to remember when you're going to a therapist, and when you're reading my book.

Risa Rispoli, the therapist in Till Darkness Comes is fictional and is not based on anyone I've ever met. Risa comes to her job with a background that leads her to want to take care of her clients, often to her own detriment.

The protagonist, Beth Vogelsang, has had a difficult childhood and an even more difficult early adulthood. She is broken. Will Risa be able to help her? Or will Beth trigger something in Risa that sends her spinning?

In my own experience with therapy, I learned the only thing I could change was my perception. Maybe it is because I was born with an optimistic nature, but I now view the "terrible things" from my life as obstacles I had to overcome in order to become who I am today. And as a writer, I was provided plenty of fodder, or as my writing buddy used to say, "grist for the mill."

Till Darkness Comes
 When Beth Vogelsang's Uncle Jerry is tortured and murdered Beth's estranged friend Regan is the first cop on the scene. Regan hopes for reconciliation, but they've led different lives. Beth has been abused, beaten, raped, and has experienced a devastating death in the family. She's also fallen in love with her lesbian therapist. Will she reunite with her friend? Or will their individual secrets keep them apart? Meanwhile, there's a serial killer on the loose, putting both their lives at risk.


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