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Sunday, May 28, 2017
Thursday, May 25, 2017
BOOK CLUB FRIDAY--GUEST AUTHOR KELLI A. WILKINS
Kelli A. Wilkins is an award-winning romance and
horror author who has published more than a hundred short stories, nineteen
romance novels, and five nonfiction books. Today, she answers a few fun questions readers often ask her.
Learn more about Kelli and her books at her website and blog.
How
would you describe yourself using only five words?
Busy romance and horror author.
Do
you have any guilty pleasures?
Of course! I lounge around on the couch in front of the TV when I
should be writing or cleaning or doing something else. I usually devote my
Friday nights to being lazy.
How
do you get yourself in the mood to write?
I block out a chunk of time and review my outline. Then I envision
the scene I want to write, and I just do it. My first draft is nowhere near
perfect—I write it out just to get the scene on paper. When I go back and
revise, I add dialog tags, sensory details, and fix up the word choices to make
the scene come alive.
If
someone hasn't read any of your work, what book(s) would you recommend that
they start with and why?
That depends on what genre they like to read. My romances include
almost all sub-genres, and the heat levels vary from mildly sensual to
scorching-hot.
Historical romance lovers would enjoy The Viking’s Witch. It’s a spicy historical novel set in Celtic
Scotland. Or, if they like Westerns, they could read Lies, Love & Redemption. It takes place on the Nebraska prairie
in 1877.
Readers of historical/fantasy romance would like either my Royal Desires series (A Most Unusual Princess, A Most Intriguing
Temptation, and A Most Unfortunate Prince) or my
Naughty Nobles trilogy (Midsummer Night’s
Delights, Midwinter Night’s Delights, and
Ultimate Night’s Delights).
Contemporary romance readers can fall in love with Vinnie, the
hero from A Deceptive Match, while paranormal lovers
would like Confessions of a Vampire’s
Lover.
And readers of gay romance should enjoy A Secret Match, Four Days with Jack (coming in June), or Killer in Wolf’s Clothing. I like to say
I have romances for everyone!
Most people envision an author’s life as being really
glamorous. What’s your take on this?
That’s a fantasy! Most
people want to believe that writers sit around contemplating what to write all
day, crank out a book in a week, then sit back and collect outrageously huge
checks. Yes, sometimes that happens to a few authors, but the rest of us put in
lots of hard work. Many non-writers don’t understand that creating a book out
of thin air is a time-consuming (and sometimes frustrating) process.
I’ve had well-meaning (I
think!) people ask me how come I don’t have a million dollars or why haven’t my
books been on the New York Times Bestseller
List yet. The reality is that some authors can and do quit their day jobs to
write, while others put in forty hours a week doing something else and then
carve out time from the rest of the day to write. It’s not always glamorous,
but creating characters and writing about them is fun, and that’s why I do it.
If you could be a character in any of your books, who
would it be and why?
I’d probably be Odaria from The Viking’s Witch. Odaria is a very
strong woman who has magical/psychic powers. It would be interesting to see
what I would do with her abilities—although the idea of living in 803 and
giving up all modern conveniences isn’t terribly appealing. Odaria also has
Rothgar, a hot, sexy Viking warrior as her lover, so spending time with him
would be a big plus!
If you could invite any famous person, dead or alive,
for lunch, who would it be and what would you eat?
I’d have lunch with Stephen
King (his schedule permitting, of course). Most people probably don’t know that
in addition to my romances, I also write horror fiction. I read Stephen King’s
short stories at a very young age, and his writing style and distinct voice
have always stuck with me. I think his book On
Writing is a must-read for anyone who writes or wants to write. And lunch?
We’d go someplace low-key and casual (like a retro diner that has its fair
share of unique characters) and be so busy talking about all sorts of stuff (writing,
the horror genre, Dwight Yoakam, and Lucas Davenport!) that we’d forget to eat!
Tell us about your latest release(s).
This spring, I released my Naughty Nobles trilogy of erotic
historical/fantasy romances. Although the books are related, each stands alone
as an individual read. In January, I released Loving a Wild Stranger, a historical/pioneer romance set in the
Michigan Territory in the early 1800s. Lies,
Love & Redemption, my historical/Western was published last September.
What’s next on the horizon for you?
Currently, I’m revising a
new historical romance (as yet untitled) and I’m re-editing three of my contemporary
romances previously published with Amber Quill Press. After that, I have ideas
for a few other romances (another historical, a paranormal, and a gay
contemporary).
Where can readers get in touch with you or find you
on the web?
I love getting feedback and
comments about my books. I enjoy learning which characters and scenes readers
love best. Readers can find links to
all my social media hangouts and a sign-up link for my newsletter at my
website. www.KelliWilkins.com
Lies, Love &
Redemption
Shot and left for dead, Sam Hixton stumbles into
a general store on the Nebraska prairie and collapses into the arms of Cassie
Wilcox.
Cassie’s world is turned upside down when the
handsome stranger drops into her life. Sam is another complication she doesn’t
need: her business is dying and her trouble with the townspeople is escalating.
Yet she’s determined to keep the store open — no matter what the cost.
As Sam recovers from his injuries, he hides the
truth about his identity and convinces Cassie to let him work in the store.
He’s attracted to her and admires her independent nature but quickly realizes
Cassie’s in way over her head. They fight their growing attraction, and Cassie
questions whether she can trust her fragile heart to a mysterious stranger. Will
he accept her once he knows about her troubled past?
Cassie resists Sam’s advances and represses her
feelings until one fateful night when they give in to their fiery passion.
Together, they work out a plan to save the store but find their efforts are
thwarted—and their lives endangered—by the locals.
Sam’s secret returns to haunt him and pulls him
away just when Cassie needs him the most. Will he regain her trust when she
learns the truth? Cassie has everything invested in the store—can she save
it and find true love with Sam before it’s too late?
Wednesday, May 24, 2017
#HEALTHY LIVING--DEALING WITH CHRONIC PAIN
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5 Tips for Minimizing the
Effects of Chronic Pain
by Jackie Waters
It seems like there are as many ways to treat chronic pain as
there are types of chronic pain. In reality, a combination of pharmacological,
dietary, physical, and mindfulness modifications is likely the best solution
for most people. Of course, it helps to have some basic tips on where to start.
Get up and get moving
If your body hurts, getting up and making your body work
might seem counterproductive. If you’re scared of exercise because you think
your chronic pain will be too limiting, it’s important to know that any little
bit helps.
“If you’re in pain, you might think that exercise would only
make the discomfort worse. However, there’s substantial research showing
movement — done safely and carefully, of course — can actually improve the
situation. That’s because exercise is a known endorphin trigger, so getting
moving sends those feel-good chemicals throughout the body and lowers pain.
Exercise also seems to reduce certain substances in the body called cytokines
that promote inflammation, according to a 2012 study that examined the effects
of physical activity on nerve pain,” says The Huffington Post.
Start slowly. Try swimming or bike riding - both are
low-impact exercises that shouldn’t exacerbate chronic joint pain. Take a walk
around the block with your dog. Even 20 minutes of exercise can have a positive
impact on your overall health.
Try drinking water (and only
water)
The benefits of staying hydrated are well documented, so we
won’t go into them here, but the benefits of drinking water extend to what
you’re not drinking when you drink water. If you replace your sodas, coffee,
and wine with water, you’re reducing your intake of sugar, caffeine, and
alcohol. All three of those substances can make chronic pain worse.
Know your limits and don’t
be afraid to say no
Much of dealing with chronic pain is knowing how to remove
yourself from situations where it can be exacerbated. It’s important to listen
to your body. If a certain activity or exercise is causing you too much pain,
stop and rework it. Don’t push through pain just because you think you can.
Know your limits.
Learn how to recognize drug
abuse
Many people turn to prescription medication to help them cope
with their chronic pain. When advised by a doctor, this can be a safe and
effective method for minimizing pain, but with drugs comes the risk of drug
abuse and dependency. It’s important that you know the warning signs and are
able to recognize any of them in your own behavior. Of course, spotting drug
abuse in yourself can be tricky but if you are prepared, you’ll be better
equipped to know when to seek help if the time comes.
Some signs include: confusion and lack of
coordination, lowered blood pressure, dry mouth, weakness, dizziness, and
sleepiness. You may also experience sleep deprivation or “nodding”, slow,
slurred speech, or constant flu-like symptoms. DrugRehab.org notes that extreme
and sudden changes in mood and personality should also send up red flags.
If you recognize these signs in yourself or if others note
them in you, it could be time to seek professional help to wean you off the
medications in question.
Accept your pain
This one is a bit more philosophical, but it’s just as
important. Denying that you’re in pain and trying to cover it up or convince
yourself it isn’t real can be disastrous for those suffering from prolonged
pain. If you accept your pain, you can then begin to find what works for you in
terms of minimizing it. Without this crucial first step, you’ll never be able
to fully focus on what triggers your pain and what works best to reduce it.
Tuesday, May 23, 2017
THE PINK VICTORIAN BY AUTHOR LOIS WINSTON
Shortly after moving into our current home nearly
twenty years ago, my husband and I took a walk around our neighborhood. We came
across an old Victorian house, built in 1871, that was undergoing a massive
renovation. It appeared the house had sustained major fire damage.
I’ve always loved Victorian architecture. So over the
course of the next few months, I watched as the house transformed from a
dilapidated mess to a magnificent homage to the period from which it came. The
owners obviously spared no expense as they brought that house back to life.
For years I admired that house from the outside. A
few years ago the owners hosted a holiday fundraiser for one of the local
private schools, and I was lucky enough to see the inside of the carriage house
they had restored into a three-car garage and loft. (That carriage house is
larger than my entire home!) However, I never had a chance to see the inside of
the pink Victorian until recently.
The house is now for sale; pictures are posted online,
along with a description. There are eight bedrooms and three bathrooms in this
5,000 square foot home. The house not only has mahogany floors throughout, the
wrap-around porches are also mahogany. (Remember I said they spared no expense
in the renovation?) There’s a butler’s pantry, leaded glass windows, a
marble(!) driveway, an in-ground heated pool, even a Koi pond. The iron fence
that surrounds the grounds was originally from the Burry Biscuit Factory and
was restored for the property. Along with all this, there are countless modern amenities,
including heated floors!
Authors often get their inspiration from people,
places, and events in their own lives. That pink Victorian, coupled with a
relative’s struggles to get pregnant and a scandal involving a Virginia in
vitro specialist, became my inspiration for Finding
Hope, originally published under my Emma Carlyle pen name.
Finding Hope, which was a Romance Writers of America Golden Heart
finalist, is one of those books that doesn’t fit neatly into a specific genre
category. It’s one part romance, one part women’s fiction, and one part
mystery.
Finding
Hope
Hope
Morgan was always the good girl, doing what her conservative parents expected:
she gave up her dream of going to college, became a secretary right out of high
school, and married the boy next door. When Hope is suddenly widowed, she finds
the courage to pursue her own dreams. Twelve years later, after working
full-time and going to school at night, she obtains her degree and is offered a
position at a prestigious architectural firm.
That’s
when her long-exiled libido decides to resurface, and Hope finds herself
falling head-over-heels for Ben Schaffer, her married boss. What Hope doesn’t
realize is that Ben’s marriage is less than ideal. Within days of Hope starting
her new job, Ben’s wife walks out on him and their three-year-old triplets–the
same day the nanny lands in the hospital. When Ben can’t find a last-minute
replacement, Hope agrees to step in as a temporary nanny–not the best decision
she’s ever made, given her raging hormones.
Ben
is fighting a battle with his own hormones, but an office romance is the last
thing he needs or wants. However, he and Hope are no match for three very
determined three-year-olds on a mission to find a happy ending.
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Monday, May 22, 2017
#COOKING WITH CLORIS--GUEST AUTHOR JUDY ALTER
Judy Alter is the author of the Blue Plate Café Mysteries, the
Kelly O’Connell Mysteries, and the Oak Grove Mysteries. Her fiction and nonfiction about women of the American West has
won numerous awards including a Lifetime Achievement Award from Western Writers
of America.
Judy’s love of cooking led her to write a memoir/cookbook, Cooking My Way Through Life with Kids and Books, complete with family pictures and recipes.
Now retired, she was for years the director of a small
academic press. She is the mother of four and the grandmother of seven and
lives—and cooks—in a cottage in Fort Worth, Texas with
her Bordoodle, Sophie. Learn more about Judy and her books at her website and
blog.
Following Mom in the
Kitchen—or Gram in the Café
Like Kate, café owner at the center of The Blue Plate
Mysteries, I learned to cook as a young child by following my mom in the
kitchen. She let me make a mess of her kitchen because she knew that was how
I’d learn. She let me follow recipes on my own, with the result I once added
nine tsp. of baking soda to a cake. I had followed the recipe carefully but
wasn’t smart enough to recognize an impossible typo. Mom taught me to
entertain, to clean up the kitchen as I went (a sanity-saving lesson), and to
love being in the kitchen, cooking, experimenting with tastes and textures.
Kate followed her beloved Gram in the café kitchen from her
early years. Gram cooked the
down-home food just right for a café in a small East Texas town—chicken-fried
steak, fried chicken, fried catfish, meatloaf, lots of grits, lots of greens,
meringue pies. Kate learned early to fix those things. But she also learned the
“tricks” of cooking—put chunks of peeled potato in a dish that’s too salty, add
sugar not salt to water when you boil corn, add a bit of vinegar to boiling
water for hard-boiled eggs, add a pinch of sugar to “finish” tomato-based
dishes like spaghetti sauce, rinse a pan with cold water before putting food in
it, always start boiling potatoes in cold water.
When Kate finished high school and headed for Dallas and the
life of a legal assistant and single girl, she took her love of cooking with
her. She moved from down-home to gourmet, growing her own herbs in a pot garden
and achieving success with such complicated dishes as Coquille St. Jacques and
Steak Diane. When Gram’s sudden death (or was it murder?) calls her back to the
town of her childhood and to the café, Kate revives the basic dishes Gram
taught her. She can make sticky buns, and meatloaf with the best of them. At
her twin sister’s urging, she even teaches cooking classes to the local
ladies—Beef Wellington, chicken piccata, chicken enchiladas, quail (all those
hunters in town), and shepherd’s pie. But she doesn’t serve those things at the
café—she sticks to the recipes she learned from Gram.
A typical special on the chalkboard at the Blue Plate Café
may feature meatloaf, Reva’s asparagus, and Louella’s rice. (Note the family
connection of many recipes—says something about the café).
Gram’s Meatloaf
1-1/2 lbs. ground
chuck
1 medium onion,
chopped
1/2 green pepper,
chopped fine (Kate substitutes chopped celery)
2 eggs, slightly
beaten
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. pepper
18 saltine crackers,
crushed
16 oz. tomato sauce
Mix well and put into
loaf pan. Optional: top with an additional 8 oz. of tomato sauce.
Bake at 350° for one
hour. Check and possibly cook for another 15 to 30 minutes.
Reva’s asparagus
2 cup asparagus (Gram
used canned, but you may use one bunch of fresh, trimmed and lightly steamed.)
1 cup sour cream
1/4 cup mayonnaise
2 T. lemon juice
Buttered breadcrumbs
Arrange asparagus in
a single layer in a small rectangular baking dish. Mix sour cream, mayonnaise,
and lemon juice and pour over asparagus. Top with breadcrumbs and bake until
topping is brown and dish is heated through.
Louella’s rice
1 cup Minute Rice
1 cup sour cream
1 cup shredded sharp
cheddar
1 can cream of celery
soup
4 oz. can chopped
chilies
Mix and bake at 350°
for 35-40 minutes.
All Blue Plate Café
Mysteries include a selection of recipes.
Murder at the Blue Plate Café
Small towns are
supposed to be idyllic and peaceful, but when Kate Chambers returns to her
hometown of Wheeler, Texas, she soon learns it is not the comfortable place it
was when she grew up. First there’s Gram’s sudden death, which leaves her
suspicious, and then the death of her married sister’s lover. Kate runs Gram’s
restaurant, the Blue Plate Café, but she must defend her sister against a
murder charge, solve the murders to keep her business open, and figure out
where the café’s profits are going. Even Kate begins to wonder about the twin
sister she has a love-hate relationship with. Gram guides Kate through it all,
though Kate’s never quite sure she’s hearing Gram—and sometimes Gram’s guidance
is really off the wall.
Sunday, May 21, 2017
#CRAFTS WITH ANASTASIA--MAKE A MOP DOLL
Can dolls kill? If you’re an aficionado of horror
books and movies, you’ll probably say they can. But dolls are inanimate objects
without minds of their own. Humans kill, but in Death By Killer Mop Doll, the dolls I’ve created for a new
television show become a killer’s props. Pity my poor mop dolls. They took
quite a beating before I figured out whodunit. If you’d like to make a mop doll
of your own, they’re quite easy and require no special crafting skills. Anyone
who can use a pair of scissors, some tacky glue, and a glue gun, can make a mop doll. Here’s how:
Basic Mop
Doll Directions
Materials:
24 oz. mop head (available in the cleaning section of
most hardware stores, discount centers, and supermarkets), 4” Dylite® (smooth
craft foam) ball, 5” x 5” natural muslin, wooden craft stick, 3/16” black
half-round beads, rubber bands, tacky glue, glue gun (optional), blush or pink
powdered chalk, 1/4 yd. 3/8” wide ribbon, 1/2 yd. cotton or cotton blend
fabric, 1-1/4 yd. 1-1/2” gathered lace, desired lace or ribbon embellishments
for neck edge, needle and thread, 8” straw doll’s hat.
(NOTE: All
gluing can be done with either tacky glue or a glue gun except for attaching
the muslin to the Dylite® ball and gluing the dress. These steps must be done
with tacky glue.)
1. Cut a 4-3/4” diameter circle from muslin for the
face. Snip 1/4” cuts around the perimeter of the muslin circle. Using tacky
glue, glue the muslin to the front of the Dylite® ball, smoothing out any
wrinkles.
2. Poke a hole in the bottom of the Dylite® ball
directly under the muslin face. Glue the craft stick into the ball, allowing
approximately 3-1/2” of the stick to extend.
3. Spread the mop apart on a table. Randomly pull 26
strands from the mop. Set strands aside.
4. With the bottom of the doll head
adjacent to the top of the mop, glue the craft stick centered over the mop
tape.
5. Glue several strands of mop closest to the head down over the craft stick
and mop tape to conceal them. Flip the doll over and repeat the previous step
to conceal the mop tape on the reverse side. Wrap one of the mop strands you
set aside around the doll’s neck, gluing in place.
6.. At both the left and right sides of the doll, take
the top 18 mop strands. Trim 3” from length, saving trimmed pieces to use for
hair. Braid strands for arms, securing each wrist with a rubber band. Glue ribbon around wrists to cover rubber bands.
7. Tie the body together under the arms with one mop
strand to form a waist. Trim ends even with bottom of mop.
8. Cut remaining mop strands into 3” lengths. Run a
line of glue around the edge of the muslin for hairline. Fold strands in half,
gluing folded edge to the muslin. Run a second line of glue in front of the
hairline. Glue a second row of folded strands in front of the first row. Place
the doll face down. Working in even horizontal rows from the base of the neck
to the top of the head, continue gluing hair in place.
9. Glue beads in place for eyes.
10. Use blush or chalk to color cheeks.
11. To make the dress, press under short edges of
fabric 1/2” twice and glue in place.
Glue gathered lace to right side of front bottom edge of fabric.
12. Press under remaining long edge of fabric. Run a
gathering stitch along this edge. Gather fabric and tie under arms at center
back of doll.
13. Glue lace and/or ribbon embellishment under neck.
14. Glue hat to doll’s head.
Death By
Killer Mop Doll
Overdue bills and constant mother vs. mother-in-law battles at
home are bad enough. But crafts editor Anastasia Pollack's stress level is
maxed out when she and her fellow American Woman editors get
roped into unpaid gigs for a revamped morning TV show. Before the glue is dry
on Anastasia's mop dolls, morning TV turns crime drama when the studio is
trashed and the producer is murdered. Former co-hosts Vince and Monica—sleazy
D-list celebrities—stand out among a lengthy lineup of suspects, all furious
over the show's new format. And Anastasia has no clue her snooping has landed
her directly in the killer's unforgiving spotlight.
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Thursday, May 18, 2017
BOOK CLUB FRIDAY--GUEST AUTHOR NIKE N. CHILLEMI
Author Nike N. Chillemi writes detective stories with
a clandestine twist, murder mysteries, and young adult romantic suspense. Today
she sits down for an interview. Learn more about Nike and her books at her
website.
When did
you realize you wanted to write novels?
About six years ago, after a run of reading one
Michael Connelly, Robert Crais, and Lee Child novel after another, I thought,
writing this stuff could be fun. Of the three authors, my voice most
resembles that of Robert Crais, only because my contemporary stories have a lot
of wry humor, not to mention, quirky characters.
How long
did it take you to realize your dream of publication?
One and a half years.
Are you
traditionally published, indie published, or a hybrid author?
My first four historical murder mystery novels (of
the post WWII era) were published by Desert Breeze both in ebook and paperback.
They're now out of print and the rights have reverted back to me. I plan to
republish. After writing those, I went indie publishing under my own publishing
company, Crime Fictionista Press.
Where do
you write?
At home, in my guest room/office.
Is silence
golden, or do you need music to write by? What kind?
Silence is golden.
How much of
your plots and characters are drawn from real life? From your life in
particular?
Not much is drawn from my own life. I'm constantly
making up scenarios…some pretty good, some awful. I write ideas down on any
scrap of paper available and later I enter them into a computer file. I do
interject into a story a bit from my life, or something I have observed where
it will work.
Real
settings or fictional towns?
Always a fictional town. Years ago, I read a murder
mystery set in NYC in which the heroine hopped onto a city bus on Fifth Avenue
and went uptown. Well, Fifth Avenue is one-way, downtown. So, it's impossible
the bus could've gone uptown. That ruined the story for me and I've never
forgotten it.
What’s the
quirkiest quirk one of your characters has?
Ronnie, the heroine in my Veronica "Ronnie"
Ingels/Dawson Hughes trilogy has a hair temper and a quirky sense of humor.
If you
could have written any book (one that someone else has already written,) which
one would it be? Why?
The Last Detective by Robert Crais. It has the best
Vietnam War flash-back I've ever
read. I could not have written it.
What’s your
biggest pet peeve?
Whiny, helpless heroines, unless they're really
funny.
You’re
stranded on a deserted island. What are your three must-haves?
My Bible, Pierce Brosnan, and a fully equipped RV camper.
My Bible, Pierce Brosnan, and a fully equipped RV camper.
What’s the
best book you’ve ever read?
War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy
Ocean or
mountains?
Mostly ocean, but mountains are good, too.
City girl/guy
or country girl/guy?
Either. I live in the best of both, Jacksonville. It
has downtown and within its borders, pure country where the oak trees are heavy
with Spanish moss.
What’s on
the horizon for you?
I want to finish the YA romantic suspense I'm working
on, That Special One. Then there's another detective trilogy with a clandestine
spin in the works.
Harmful
Intent
Betrayal runs in
private investigator Veronica "Ronnie" Ingels' family. So, why is she
surprised when her husband of one year cheats on her? The real shock is his
murder, with the local lawman pegging her as the prime suspect.
Ronnie Ingels is a
Brooklyn bred private investigator who travels to west Texas, where her
cheating husband is murdered. As she hunts the killer to clear her name, she
becomes the hunted.
Deputy Sergeant
Dawson Hughes, a former Army Ranger, is a man folks want on their side. Only
he's not so sure at first, he's on the meddling New York PI's side. As the
evidence points away from her, he realizes the more she butts in, the more
danger she attracts to herself.
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