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Sunday, November 24, 2013

CRAFTING WITH ANASTASIA--GUEST AUTHOR AND CRAFTER E. AYERS

E. Ayers is a multi-published, bestselling author of contemporary romance and contemporary and historical western romance. She’s also a crafter and joins us today to share a bit about one of her latest books and directions for making Christmas Kissing Ballls. Learn more about E. and her books at her website. 

Thanks so much for inviting me. I am part of the Exquisite Quills A Holiday Anthology, A Collection of Winter Holiday Tales by Exquisite Quills Authors and Friends. I know, what a mouthful!

The Exquisite Quills are a group of authors who have known each other for years. We've traveled down the publishing road helping and supporting each other. Recently, we started the Exquisite Quills Yahoo loop for readers and writers. We share info on the industry and announce releases and blog postings. We've also created the Exquisite Blog to share with our readers everything from “first kiss” excerpts to author interviews. We write everything from sweet to hot sexy romances, but we keep the blog and the loop friendly for all readers, no matter what heat level they prefer.

For fun, this international group of writers decided to extend our friendship in the form of a free holiday anthology as our holiday gift to our readers and everyone else.

I wrote the story The Kissing Ball for the anthology and then discovered that many people had never heard of such a thing. So I hope to enlighten everyone and give a glimpse at something that is more than just a Christmas decoration. For those who aren't as crafty, kissing balls are available on the web or from your local florist. But they’re so easy to make and can be used in a variety of ways.


Over the years, I've heard them called Victorian Balls, New Years Balls, Wedding Balls, Williamsburg Balls, etc. I've seen them hung, and I've seen them pushed onto painted dowels and "planted" in flowerpots. I've also seen them carried by flower girls at weddings. So there are endless possibilities for these balls. Since we're not going to be covering them in live flowers for this post, I'll stick to the basic instructions.

The traditional Christmas Ball or Kissing Ball is usually made with small pinecones and nuts with a touch of mistletoe. But it can be made of almost anything for any time of the year. I've seen them done with seashells, flowers, greenery, empty cotton boles, or any other material you desire. You start with a Styrofoam ball available at any craft store. The average is usually made with a six-inch ball, but you could use a smaller one or a much larger one for a dramatic effect.

In my story, my heroine is making hers with a bag of mixed nuts, pinecones, and red ribbon bows. She uses an artificial spring of mistletoe. A glue gun, florist pins, and wire will make almost any sort of ball you desire. A can of clear coat will help to keep your nut and pinecone ball looking good for years to come. (Just hide it from the mice!)

The easiest way to keep a hanging ball stable and hanging, is to use a long piece of wire folded in half and pushed through the ball to the bottom. For a six-inch diameter ball, use about 18 inches of wire folded in half, push it down until it comes out the other side. You can poke a hole through the ball with something skinny such as a coat hanger or even a cake tester if you are using a narrow gage wire. Make certain that the wire will have the strength to hold the ball. It will get heavy.

Put the wire through the hole and extend the cut edges so that you leave only a small loop at the top. Bend the wires so they extend in opposite directions, then poke the tips into the ball. A little glue over the wire ends will hold them in place. They will be covered with glued decorations, which will also help stabilize the wires and keep them from pulling out.

If you intend to "plant" the ball in a flowerpot, there's no need for the wire loop just mark the spot for the dowel by pressing the dowel into the ball enough to make an indentation. You will push the dowel several inches into the ball after you’re finished decorating it. Remember these balls can be quite heavy when you're finished so you want a sturdy piece of dowel, probably about the thickness of your forefinger or at least 3/8 of an inch. The dowel can be painted green or stained brown.

Using a combination of small pinecones and nuts, cover the ball so that the Styrofoam no longer shows. It's a fun puzzle to put together. Don't forget to leave a tiny bit of space around that wire loop or where the dowel goes. It doesn't take much space just enough to access the wire with a length of ribbon for hanging. It's up to you how you arrange the pinecones and nuts. You can line the pinecones up to create a design or mix everything. I prefer to mix everything. Most craft stores carry bags of mixed small pinecones, or you can gather them from the yard or off trees. Simply glue them into place leaving space between each one so you can add the nuts. Once the pinecones are in place, add some glue to the ball, then wedge the nuts between the cones. When you are done, you can add simple narrow satin bows attached to pins to cover any tiny barren spots, thus hiding the foam below.

I like adding bits of greenery. This time of year, the craft stores usually have artificial/silk bits of boxwood or holly with berries, and other such things. You want to keep the thickness of the ball fairly uniform so that it retains its shape. The extra touch of color and change in texture adds depth and character to the ball. Don't forget the sprig of mistletoe for a Kissing Ball! And who doesn't want a little holiday luck?

These balls also make wonderful gifts and can be customized to match any décor. For those of you in warm climates, you might want to make the balls of silk flowers or bits of things native to your area. Use your imagination and have fun.

The Kissing Ball is available in the Exquisite Quills Holiday Anthology which is free through Smashwords.

NOTE: Flower ball and seashell ball by Petals By Xavi http://petalsbyxavi.wordpress.com/2012/02/03/feature-friday-kissing-balls/
Pinecone Ball by Judy Stephenson http://www.etsy.com/listing/88514905/pine-cone-kissing-ball

20 comments:

E.Ayers said...

Thanks so much for having me here. I hope everyone grabs the free book and has fun making kissing balls. It's such an easy craft and the children can help with it.

janeleopoldquinn.blogspot.com said...

What a darling idea, E. Easy to make and they look gorgeous.

Anonymous said...

Fun craft -and have downloaded the book. Thanks for offering it. Carolyn

E.Ayers said...

I like the fact that you can customize them. If you live at the beach, you can use the things you find on the beach. To us the holiday means snow, but for so many folks, it's warm. Use what is available and what suits your decor.

momofemmett said...

I love the story! Haven't had the time to read the rest, but I will before Christmas gets here. E. you are one of my favorite authors!

Penny's Tales said...

This was a great post E. I love crafts (though mine never turn out like the picture) I am going to give it a shot! I love the cover of your book and I'm on my way to download it! Happy Holidays, everybody.....

E.Ayers said...

Oh, Penny, I'd love to see a photo of what you create! Bet this turns out better than expected.

Angela Adams said...

I've seen Flower Girls carry them in Bridal parties, but never thought to use them for the Holiday Season. Thanks!

E.Ayers said...

Thanks, Jan. I think you'll love the stories in this anthology.

E.Ayers said...

And I've never seen them used at a wedding - only pictures of them.

I love when they are grouped. Like one for each step up the staircase. Or several smaller ones hung from a chandelier and they are staggered and different sizes.

Sandy said...

I have never been crafty, but my sister is. I'll tell her about the kissing ball.

Unknown said...

Thanks, E, for sharing the 'how to'... I loved your story!

Anonymous said...

I'm always looking for holiday crafts to do with my 'crafty' granddaughter, Brakelle. Your Kissing Ball is perfect and so timely. She's going to love making one...or several. ;-)

Unknown said...

I used to have a silk floral business and would make the balls. I love the way they look. I always made them with pine cones, but I absolutely love the creative displays you can make whether it's Xmas decorations are as some have mentioned, using it for weddings. Such great ideas.

Would love to read your Xmas stories.

E.Ayers said...

Thank you Gemma,and thanks for stopping by. This was such a fun book and I loved your sweet story of the magical train ride.

E.Ayers said...

Kaye, have fun with this one. I'd love to see pics when you are done. Everyone makes them with their own twist. But making something with a grandchild is extra special.

E.Ayers said...

Carolyn, don't forget to grab your FREE copy of A Holiday Anthology by the Exquisite Quills.

Thanks for the re-tweets.

B. Lohr said...

How beautiful! Love the look...so great for the holidays!

E.Ayers said...

B. Lohr, so glad you stopped by and I hope you picked up a copy of A Holiday Anthology at Smashwords because it's filled with wonderful stories to lift the corners of your mouth this season.

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